Most first-time sex toy users don’t know how to use a vibrator. Why don’t all vibrators come in with useful guides? Is it all that obvious? Aren’t they supposed to be on-off, like a flashlight? The short news is that sex toys can be so much more than a tool for instant sexual gratification. It can be an invaluable companion for you or your partner.

Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes. They can accommodate any body type, gender and orientation. They are there for anyone who would like to discover new sexual adventures. Men and women alike can experience the joys of a vibrator and in using sex toys.

Looking to step off and try something new for your private life? Take a look at some helpful points in using your first vibrator.

Opening The Package

Take the vibrator out the box and take a moment to hold it in your hands. Inspect the equipment and try to imagine how it would work. If the toy comes with batteries, put them in. If they need to be charged first, plug it in. Check the buttons and the switches and what they do. Familiarize yourself with the various speed settings.

It would also be nice to wash your vibrator first before using it. Why? For hygiene reasons, of course! If it doesn’t say waterproof, then wipe it down with a clean, wet cloth or tissue and avoid the charging mechanism and the battery. You will need to see whether the product holds well or if it seems to fall apart. Sharp edges and seams that aren’t part of the design should be the reason for return. Your first time has to be extra special.

Beginning Your Delicious Journey

Are you planning to use the vibrator with a partner? It would be nice if you would try it for yourself first. Starting on your own will make you feel less conscious about playing with it. The experience will be about how it feels without distractions that a partner can bring. Make some time and spend it in a quiet room. If you are living in an apartment or on the busy side of town, turn on some music for added privacy.

Get Enough Light

Don’t turn on the mood lighting yet, as you may need to rely on your vision for the first part of the testing. Playing the vibrator can be both useful and educational early on. In your journey, you will be able to find the most pleasurable spots that you may not have felt before. You can take these spots in mind for future stimulation use via the sex toy and/or with your partner.

Play with the intensity and vibe. Does it give more pleasure when touched lightly, or when squeezed firmly?

Play Without Vibrations

Now you’re almost ready. It’s time to feel the vibrator without turning it on yet. Feel the vibrator against your body and gently introduce it. Pay attention to your senses and take special notice of the new sensations. Now, press it firmly and try to massage your muscles using the toy. Depending on the material you chose, the feeling will be intense. A hard vibrator is great for massaging, while a rubber-based on will be spectacular if you have minimal clothes on.

Take Your Time

Women have experienced a different kind of vibrating stimulation by simply switching one side to the other. Not all areas of the clitoris are the same. This is the time to find out where the most special part is. Explore every inch. Remember that the vibrator can keep working as long as the batteries are charged up.

Now, turn the vibrator on. Get a feel for it with your hands and feet. Run it up and down the length of your arms, the length of your legs and your torso. Feel it in your neck and your scalp. The vibrations should arouse and equally relax you. Then, you can move it to your most sensitive parts.

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Experiment with the Speed

If you bought a vibrator with variable speed settings, now is the time to use them. Remember to go slow and work your way up. If it doesn’t feel right at the first time and at the lowest settings, put up a soft towel in between or simply have the vibrator lightly touch your body. Men would often prefer stronger vibrations as to simulate the effects of sex and masturbation.

Playing with Fire

You’ve played with the safety on so far. But now all gloves are off. It’s time to get serious!

Maybe you’ve noticed one thing while playing with your sex toy. As you push it more on your skin, the vibrations feel less pronounced. When you hold it lightly, the vibrations can be clearly felt. This presents a variety of sexual stimulation that you can play around with. How about trying a feather touch on your most sensitive parts, or going gung-ho and laying on deep pressure?

Men might not want to put in too much pressure on their scrotum, but there’s a part that they will surely love. Move it around the perineum area to stimulate the prostrate, and you just might discover a new favorite spot. Also, try to put the speed on high and put the vibrator on the head of your penis. You can come to orgasm without moving the toy another inch this way.

The Penetration Game

Use anal-safe vibrators if you intend to put them in anally. Before you play with them, make sure the vibrators are damage-free and smooth. They should be made of non-porous material and have a flared base for safety purposes. You wouldn’t want it to go completely in as it could lead to embarrassing situations. Use a water-based lubricant on your vibrator before penetration. Don’t share the toys unless using a condom each time. It would be wise not to insert the vibrator into the vagina once it has entered anally.

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Take Out The Batteries

Don’t go to sleep after a climax as of yet; you’ll need to take the batteries out of the vibrator. Make a habit of taking it out each time you use it. The batteries might leak and corrode the casing. You may unknowingly leave it turned on – this burns out the motor. At the worst, you’ll find yourself without a charge just as you were about to do the deed by yourself or with a partner!

 

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