Read on as we share four tips to help couples who are suffering from a sexless marriage
Sex is critical in marriage because it allows couples to have fun together and create a strong emotional bond with each other. So if there is little or if there’s no sex in marriage at all, then this could mean that there’s a problem with your marriage which needs to be taken cared of.
Find out the Reasons
There should be reasons why you and your spouse are no longer getting intimate, so you should find out what these reasons are to properly address the problem. Was it because you fight more often that you are no longer interested in having intimate moments with each other, or was it because of medical reasons? Whatever the reasons are, understanding and knowing the reasons behind your sexless marriage is the key to fixing this major problem in your marriage.
Sex Toys Into a New Relationship
Ok, so barging out of the bathroom wearing a strap on might not be the ideal way to introduce sex toys into a new relationship, equally telling your man how much your dildo pleasures you might make him feel inadequate, but initiating the use of sex toys together in a new relationship can be an exciting and thrilling step to take.
Whatever your level of confidence using toys it’s best to start slow and straightforward, so you don’t intimidate your other half if they are less sure. Begin with enhancers: massage oil or a tingling lubricant is sure to improve any sexual experience. Tease you are and arouse your partner with a soft, feather tickler for a more intense orgasm later. Sex toys can and should be about enhancing your sexual experiences together. People seem to forget that toys can be romantic – if you and your partner enjoy getting wet together; suction handles or foot rests makes shower sex, even more, fun.
There are plenty of toys designed for couples to enjoy together
Dildo use is pretty widespread, and a recent survey in a monthly glossy magazine reported that 20% of young professional women between the ages of 24 and 35 carry a dildo with most of the time. Self-pleasure has proven to have health benefits and can lead to better sex life through self-discovery.
What is a dildo?
There is some debate over what constitutes a dildo. The consensus is that a non-vibrating device, resembling a penis shape, size, and overall appearance is a dildo. Women more commonly now associate vibrating devices in that definition. Prosthetic aids or penis extensions can also be included as can sex toys/aids for anal penetration such as butt plugs although not everyone associates them with the term dildo.
During your day, you and your wife might talk about many things via the phone, email or texting messages. Topics between couples often include issues about money and bills, problems with the kids, aging parents or other family members and friends. Rarely do couples talk about the elephant in the room: the decrease in marriage sex. Relaxed sexual relations between a husband and wife keep the relationship healthy and bring a spouse and wife closer together.
It’s important to keep an open line of communication to ensure a happy and healthy marital relationship. If you can’t talk openly about sex with your wife, this causes negative issues in the relationship, not just in your sex life.
It’s important to take the lead in your marriage by talking to your wife about sex. Whatever you do, don’t critique her or make her feel she doesn’t measure up. This gesture will not work to improve your sex life. Try a dialogue that encourages your wife to speak about the things she would like to experience in your sexual relationship. But be careful as to what you say as it is very easy to say the wrong thing. Reach out to your wife by showing your willingness to dialogue and try new things.