Read on as we share four tips to help couples who are suffering from a sexless marriage
Sex is critical in marriage because it allows couples to have fun together and create a strong emotional bond with each other. So if there is little or if there’s no sex in marriage at all, then this could mean that there’s a problem with your marriage which needs to be taken cared of.
Find out the Reasons
There should be reasons why you and your spouse are no longer getting intimate, so you should find out what these reasons are to properly address the problem. Was it because you fight more often that you are no longer interested in having intimate moments with each other, or was it because of medical reasons? Whatever the reasons are, understanding and knowing the reasons behind your sexless marriage is the key to fixing this major problem in your marriage.
How to Choose a Vibrator for Beginners or Experienced Sex Toy Users
If you and your partner are looking for ways of improving sex for couples may I suggest introducing a vibrator? A vibrator has been called a woman’s best friend and can perform miracles when used before or during sex.
Sex toys are becoming more and more mainstream, and vibrators are the most popular sex toy to help with improving sex for couples. Today there are vibrators for literally every occasion so take your time, do your research and learn what different vibrators do. You may even consider getting more than one.
Rabbit vibrators are very popular, especially for those who prefer dual clitoral and vaginal stimulation. But there are many other types of vibrators available for those who are looking at ways of improving sex for couples.
There are vibrators specifically designed to enhance g-spot stimulation for the ladies and prostate stimulation for men. Other standard vibrators used for improving sex for couples include bullet/egg types, finger types, mini types and clitoral/discreet types of vibrators. Some vibrators are waterproof for extra fun in the shower, bath or hot tub and you can even get vibrators that have remote controls so you can give the driver’s wheel to your partner.
Sex Toys Into a New Relationship
Ok, so barging out of the bathroom wearing a strap on might not be the ideal way to introduce sex toys into a new relationship, equally telling your man how much your dildo pleasures you might make him feel inadequate, but initiating the use of sex toys together in a new relationship can be an exciting and thrilling step to take.
Whatever your level of confidence using toys it’s best to start slow and straightforward, so you don’t intimidate your other half if they are less sure. Begin with enhancers: massage oil or a tingling lubricant is sure to improve any sexual experience. Tease you are and arouse your partner with a soft, feather tickler for a more intense orgasm later. Sex toys can and should be about enhancing your sexual experiences together. People seem to forget that toys can be romantic – if you and your partner enjoy getting wet together; suction handles or foot rests makes shower sex, even more, fun.
There are plenty of toys designed for couples to enjoy together
Dildo use is pretty widespread, and a recent survey in a monthly glossy magazine reported that 20% of young professional women between the ages of 24 and 35 carry a dildo with most of the time. Self-pleasure has proven to have health benefits and can lead to better sex life through self-discovery.
What is a dildo?
There is some debate over what constitutes a dildo. The consensus is that a non-vibrating device, resembling a penis shape, size, and overall appearance is a dildo. Women more commonly now associate vibrating devices in that definition. Prosthetic aids or penis extensions can also be included as can sex toys/aids for anal penetration such as butt plugs although not everyone associates them with the term dildo.
Most first-time sex toy users don’t know how to use a vibrator. Why don’t all vibrators come in with useful guides? Is it all that obvious? Aren’t they supposed to be on-off, like a flashlight? The short news is that sex toys can be so much more than a tool for instant sexual gratification. It can be an invaluable companion for you or your partner.
Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes. They can accommodate any body type, gender and orientation. They are there for anyone who would like to discover new sexual adventures. Men and women alike can experience the joys of a vibrator and in using sex toys.
Looking to step off and try something new for your private life? Take a look at some helpful points in using your first vibrator.